Thursday, April 10, 2025

The Spoon Theory—It’s Not Just For Disabled Folks!

Ever catch someone identifying as a “spoonie” in a social media bio? Confused? Curious? Allow me to explain.

There’s an essay that’s become well known among disabled people called The Spoon Theory, written by Christine Miserandino for the But You Don’t Look Sick blog. In it, she creates a metaphor wherein spoons represent one’s physical and mental energy. Having lunch with a friend who’d asked what it’s really like to be disabled, she explained that when you’re disabled, you have a limited number of spoons. On any given day, you have figure out how many spoons you expect to have and how many spoons each activity you have planned might take. If you have way too much planned for the available spoons, you need to adjust your plans accordingly.


Graphic showing black stick figures with "low battery," slumped at a desk with a large pile of paperwork and napping in bed. Text reads" Low on physical & mental energy? Falling asleep at your desk? Maybe a nap would help!

It’s basically time and energy management, and while some people can get away with “winging it”—pushing through exhaustion or adjusting their schedules on the fly—that approach can spell disaster for others, particularly many disabled people. Personally, I find the analogy extremely helpful for explaining to able-bodied friends why it's so difficult for me say yes to spur-of-the-moment plans. Sometimes these invites feel like my buddies are suggesting I defy gravity! I often direct friends to the spoon theory essay to help them understand me more fully.


I’ve also found an understanding of the limited spoons I might have on a given day helpful in combatting the feeling that my not doing enough is some kind of moral failing. I can’t paint a whole house with one gallon of paint. That’s just math. But I might be able to tackle one room, and by setting a more feasible goal, I’m practicing gentle self-care and avoiding any mental-energy-sapping moral judgement that stands to derail me.


Recently an able-bodied artist friend was struggling with her own moral judgement around not accomplishing enough. This friend has a husband, a dog, a home needing routine maintenance and a day job—all of which require time and energy, i.e. a certain number of spoons. I could see that her mental energy, or bandwidth, was a real factor for her. I introduced her to The Spoon Theory and suggested she use it to make a more realistic goals and let go of unrealistic shame. Creating takes focus! Sometimes we may have physical strength leftover but our minds need rest.


Try the following exercise: 

Graphic with 15 different types of spoons and "to do list" type categories. Text reads: "Available spoons" and "Do you have enough?"

Start with maybe 15 spoons for a given day and breakdown how many are needed for the various things on your schedule. Remember to consider both physical and mental energy. Tackle the “must do” agenda items first, and see how many spoons you have left for the rest. Do you have enough spoons for your art? If not, can you rearrange your schedule a bit? Maybe you can and maybe you can’t, but please remember: not getting to your art (or only getting to a little) on a day chock full of unavoidable activities isn’t a moral failing. It’s you being human.


Have fun—and now I gotta go. I’m totally out of spoons!


Karol Ruth Silverstein's author photo. She's a white woman with wavy brown hair, wearing blue glasses and a lavender top emblazoned with the word "PROUD." The "O" on proud is a dynamic wheelchair icon.


KAROL RUTH SILVERSTEIN is an award-winning children's book author and disability activist. She lives in West Hollywood, CA with two impossibly fluffy cats. 

Tuesday, April 8, 2025

Ben Wolf over at BookBub explains the "selling" and "connecting" duality of in-person events

 


I was impressed by this breakdown in How I Sell More Books at Live Events about how Ben approaches the author-potential customer interaction at live events:

What’s the best way for authors to maximize sales without coming across as a jerk?

When you’re selling books, you have to simultaneously hold two principles in your head:

1. I’m here to sell books.

2. I’m here to connect with readers.

They may seem contradictory at first, but if you do them both correctly, they harmonize nicely with each other.

My approach is a straightforward, repeatable process that I endeavor to control from the beginning to the end. When I see someone has taken notice of my books or my display, I greet them and ask, “What kind of books do you like to read?” This question serves as an invitation to 1. connect with me and 2. take a closer look at the books I’m selling.

Once they reply, I hand them a book (connecting) that is closest to their stated interests or genre preferences, and I begin to tell them (selling) about the books.

Ben goes into more detail in the article over at BookBub Partners -- it's well-worth reading.

Illustrate, Translate, Write, Connect and Sell on!
Lee

Thursday, April 3, 2025

Lessons in Resiliency From Bozo the Clown

Graphic drawing a Bozo the clown punching bag toy.

Growing up, I had this Bozo the Clown punching bag toy. Tube-shaped and made of hard rubber, it stood about four feet tall and had a weighted bottom. It was painted with Bozo’s likeness, with 3D orange clown hair sticking out on either side of his head, a honkable red-ball nose, wide eyes and an exaggerated smile. The idea was to sock Bozo right in the face—possibly not a toy today’s parents would embrace—making him flail backward. But he’d always bounce right back up due to the weighted bottom, and always with that same goofy grin.


Thank you Universe. May I have another?


Graphic with three photos of Karol playing Dolly in her 6th grade play. A theater marquee graphic reads: "Annie Get Your Gun, 1975."
Stealing scenes as Dolly

Throughout my life, I’ve felt a kinship with these Bozo toys—getting knocked down but always bouncing back up, my undying willingness to try again intact. In my sixth grade graduation play, I was not cast as the lead in Annie Get Your Gun as I’d hoped, but instead tagged for the comical supporting role of Dolly. After a good sulk, I decided I’d be the best darn Dolly I could be and went on to steal most of the scenes I was in. 

Okay Universe. Watch me now.


My journey to becoming a published author began with a mostly unsuccessful attempt at a screenwriting career. After being knocked down countless times by near-misses and consolation prizes, I shifted my focus (i.e. bounced back) to writing books for kids. Guess what? I continued to get knocked down and had to continue bouncing back up. Somewhere along the line, I realized this was sort of my thing. I would not give up, would not lose hope. There would always be a different approach or another angle I could try. And I did—again and again. 

Howdy Universe! Guess who? 


Luckily, after signing with an agent whose resiliency rivaled my own and a new series of bounce-backs, we sold my debut YA novel, Cursed. I had a great experience working with my editor and publisher, and the book went on to win a big award. Whew! I’d made it! 


Alas—the punches to the face did not cease. Life generally doesn’t work that way, particularly for artists. There will always be hurdles, crushing near-misses, confidence-rattling disappointments. So what’s a tired punching bag clown to do? Keep writing. Keep bouncing back up. Keep relying on that weighted bottom to provide the momentum and balance needed to try again, to believe that a victory is not only possible but might be right around the next corner.


My metaphoric weighted bottom consists of a mix of encouragement in my early childhood, my innate stubbornness, a host of supportive friends who believe in me and the determination gained and strengthened by my managing life with a disability. It hasn’t failed me yet. But what if your weighted bottom feels lacking in heft? 


How might you build it into the gargantuan glutes necessary for an artist in an exceptionally difficult field? Give it a think, take any necessary actions and keep bouncing back.

Watch out Universe. Here we come…


Karol Ruth Silverstein's author photo. She's a white woman with wavy brown hair, wearing blue glasses and a lavender top emblazoned with the word "PROUD." The "O" on proud is a dynamic wheelchair icon.

KAROL RUTH SILVERSTEIN is an award-winning children's book author and disability activist. She lives in West Hollywood, CA with two impossibly fluffy cats. 

Tuesday, April 1, 2025

Celebrate We Need Diverse Books Day on Thursday April 3, 2025

SCBWI's friends at We Need Diverse Books just announced "We Need Diverse Books Day," happening this Thursday April 3, 2025!

A screenshot from Instagram: How to Celebrate We Need Diverse Books Day with words over a group of friends reading outdoors. The list includes: Read a diverse book; Post/share a review of a diverse book; Make a list of diverse book recommendations; Organize a read-a-long for a diverse book; Host a read-out-loud for a diverse book; Check out a diverse book from your library; Place a purchase request for a diverse book through your library
A screenshot from WNDB's Instagram about We Need Diverse Books Day


Here's some of what they shared:

We Need Diverse Books Day was created to commemorate a decade of WNDB’s efforts to diversify the publishing industry. This holiday is intended to highlight the importance of reading books that reflect our beautifully diverse world.

WNDB is committing to donate 10,000 diverse titles in 2025 to schools and libraries. We believe that diverse books ought to be read and celebrated, especially as book bans disproportionately target them.

To celebrate We Need Diverse Books Day, we invite you to read and share a diverse book on social media. Tell us what book you’re reading and why you picked it!

There's lots more suggestions of ways to celebrate We Need Diverse Books Day on WNDB's website here.

Illustrate, Translate, Write, and Read On,
Lee

 

Thursday, March 27, 2025

Using Picture Books to Mitigate Climate Anxiety

     I wrote a picture book manuscript as LA burned.  When the fire broke out on January 7, it had been a wonderfully blustery day due to the Santa Ana winds.  I spent the morning with my kindergarten students, flying kites.  Children chasing and laughing.  Pure joy.  

Then, on a dime it changed.  By lunchtime, the principal called us all back into our classrooms.  As it turned out we were 3.7 miles from the evacuation line.  We watched helplessly as the smoke plumes rose from the nearby mountains, then continued to burn for days.                          






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      Our community experienced trauma.  After the fires were extinguished, students from an affected school began enrolling in our school.  The students arrived in my classroom and school confused, unstable, and affected.  Their entire school community had been torn apart. We welcomed them into our community paying special attention to the fact that they were most likely experiencing trauma and most importantly needed a community and sense of belonging.       As a class, we gave them a place to belong.

      I don’t know anyone who doesn’t know someone who lost their home in one of the two fires that burned simultaneously. Both UCLA and Yale University have noted that climate change contributed to the conditions that fueled the fires.  And yet, we don’t talk about it.  I suspect climate anxiety plays a big part.  And so, as a kindergarten teacher and kidlit author, I believe that we must be the ones to start the conversation.  This last post from me explores Using Picture Books to Mitigate Climate Anxiety

     I have the deepest respect for children and believe that they are capable, curious, and creative thinkers.  I worry that as adults, our own climate anxiety prevents us from having open and honest conversations with them about this growing existential threat.  Not having these conversations will not make the problem go away.  So, how can we push through our own anxiety to engage our young people in discourse that can mitigate their anxiety and support their capacity to engage in climate activism.  How can we lead by example?  I believe picture books are a valid portal to enter past our own resistance. As kidlit authors, we can write stories that lead children past the fear of the adults around them and into discourse that can leads them to be changemakers. 

I like to read stories to my kindergarten students to provoke discourse.  I don’t care what their conclusions are.  I just want them to connect and engage. I find that stories, rather than affirmation books or books where adults tell children how and what to think keep my students riveted.  




     Stories and experiences in nature help students build relationships with the outdoors which I believe builds the conditions for conservation to emerge.  We can’t expect children to want to push beyond climate anxiety through to climate activism if they have no reason to. 

     I often begin with picture books like Sea Bear written and illustrated by Lindsay Moore about a lone polar bear’s journey across sea ice in the Arctic, The Octopus Escapes written by Maile Meloy and illustrated by Felicita Sala about an octopus who escapes from an aquarium and returns back to its natural home, and my picture book Hello, Little One: A Monarch Butterfly Story illustrated by Fiona Halliday about a fictional intergenerational friendship between a monarch caterpillar and a monarch butterfly.

     As I’ve written in my previous blog it’s important that stories are not only told through the lens of the white dominant culture (which often include animal stories) but rather offer multiple perspectives from diverse protagonists. I include Fatima’s Great Outdoors about a family's first camping trip written by Ambreen Tariq illustrated by Stevie Lewis and We Are Water Protectors about the Dakota Access Pipeline protests written by Carole Lindstrom illustrated by Michaela Goade.  I lean heaviest on No World Too Big edited by Lindsay H. Metcalf, Keila V. Dawson and Jeanette Bradley illustrated by Jeanette Bradley with non-fiction stories about youth climate activists.


     As picture book authors, we are tasked with the opportunity to move beyond our own climate anxiety and support our youth with the picture books we write.  Our children need your books as they make their way in a world where climate change is impacting where we live in different ways.  Our books can help children make sense of their world and move beyond their  anxiety to better cope with our changing world. Our books can make a difference. We owe it to this next generation.

By Zeena M. Pliska




     Zeena M. Pliska spends her days immersed in the joy of 5-year-olds.  She is a public school kindergarten teacher by day and a children’s book author by night in Los Angeles, California.  A progressive public-school educator, she believes that the most important aspect of teaching is listening to children. A social justice activist and organizer for over 30 years, she brings race, class, and gender analysis to everything she does.  She is half Egyptian and half Filipino.  A lifetime storyteller, she has facilitated stories as a theater director, visual artist, photographer and journalist and most recently as a short film screenwriter/producer/director.   Her debut picture book, Hello, Little One:  A Monarch Butterfly Story from Page Street Kids came out May 12, 2020.  Her second picture book Egyptian Lullaby from Roaring Brook Press came out April 18, 2023. Two board books in the Chicken Soup for Babies series from Charlesbridge came out in the fall and winter of 2023.  Egyptian Lullaby was awarded the 2024 CABA award from Howard University.

     Her blog posts can be found at  www.teachingauthors.com and on social media, Instagram @zeenamar, X (formerly Twitter) @zeenamar1013, Bluesky @zeenamar, and on Facebook @Zeena M. Pliska or Zeena Mar.  For more information you can go to www.zeenamar.








 

 

  

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Were Your Books Stolen in Meta’s "Massive AI Training Book Heist"?

So instead of asking authors and paying for the rights to use our books to train their AI system, Meta evidently just used books and articles held in Library Genesis -- a "pirate" site.

Here's an exercise, courtesy of Alex Reisner at The Atlantic: Search LibGen, the Pirated-Books Database That Meta used to Train AI

Screenshot of The Atlantic article: Search LibGen, the Pirated-Books Database That Meta Used to Train AI

When I ran the search on my own name, three of my published books came up (one of them twice.)

Run your own name, and see if your works -- without permission, without compensation -- were used to train Meta's AI.

The Authors Guild is calling it a "massive heist," and explains some of the things authors can do, including the information that "Class Action Lawsuits Cover All Writers Whose Books Were Used." They also say, in Meta’s Massive AI Training Book Heist: What Authors Need to Know:

"Meta and other AI companies knew exactly what they were doing but they did it anyway. Why? Because they needed books for their quality writing, style, expression, and long-form narration and would rather steal them than ask and pay for them as they do for all of the other necessary components of their AI, such as electricity and programming."

When I've used words like "Stolen" to describe the action of taking something without permission and without compensation and using it to create something else that is then sold, I've heard the response that I'm exaggerating.

I've also heard some folks say that the AI companies couldn't possibly afford to do it any other way. Except, for 2024 Meta reported, as Yahoo Finance explained, revenue of $164.5 billion -- and a profit of $62.4 billion. 

Billion.

And there are companies who are licensing works for AI training (in fact, the Authors Guild is working with one.) Note: Consent of the creators is key.

Bydonmartin at Instagram (ironically enough, as it is a Meta-owned platform) summed up their creator perspective here. It's well-worth watching.

It's all pretty upsetting, but helpful to stay informed. And maybe, as the Authors Guild suggests in their list of five things authors can do right now, taking some action can help. Here's their first suggestion:

Send a formal notice: If your books are in the LibGen dataset, send a letter to Meta and other AI companies stating they do not have the right to use your books. Here is a template you can use

Writing the letter took me two minutes (just added my info and my stolen book info) -- I've copied the text of my letter below. Did it make me feel a bit better? Yeah, a little. And if enough of us do it, maybe it will have an impact. You can draft your own letter here.

Illustrate, Translate, and Write On,
Lee

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To: Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg

Subject: You Do Not Have the Right to Use My Work

My Message:

I am writing to you as an author who is extremely concerned about your misuse of my creative work. It has come to my attention that you have used my books, Queer as a Five-Dollar Bill, A Different Kind of Brave, and No Way, They Were Gay? Hidden Lives and Secret Loves, in the training of your generative AI models without permission from me, and in violation of my rights under copyright.

This letter is to put you on notice that you do not have the right to use my work to train your AI models. You must obtain express permission and provide reasonable licensing terms for authors’ works.

I hope you will set an example of responsible, legal, ethical AI use by obtaining permission before using authors’ and journalists’ works going forward and compensating us for the use you have already made. 

Lee Wind

Thursday, March 20, 2025

Using Picture Books to Help Children Understand Our Diverse World

 

In this exploration of Using Picture Books to Help Children Understand Our Diverse World, let me begin with a quote that many of us are familiar with:

“Books are sometimes windows, offering views of worlds that may be real or imagined, familiar or strange. These windows are also sliding glass doors, and readers have only to walk through in imagination to become part of whatever world has been created and recreated by the author. When lighting conditions are just right, however, a window can also be a mirror. Literature transforms human experience and reflects it back to us, and in that reflection, we can see our own lives and experiences as part of the larger human experience. Reading, then, becomes a means of self-affirmation, and readers often seek their mirrors in books. (1990, p. ix)” Dr. Rudine Sims Bishop, Professor Emerita of Education at Ohio State University and a pioneer in multicultural children’s literature research.

My picture book Egyptian Lullaby was released in April 2023. I wrote Egyptian Lullaby to normalize Arab culture because Hollywood and the media had done such a bang-up job of demonizing Arabs.



I often present at teacher’s conferences on Using Picture Books to Decenter White Culture and Re-center Diversity. When I present, I ask teachers to evaluate their classroom libraries. I invite them to:

Identify their 10 favorite picture books that they read to their class every year. Who are the protagonists? What percentage of the picture books have non-white or Black, Indigenous, People of Color (BIPOC) protagonists? What percentage have animal protagonists that tell their story through a white/dominant culture lens? What percentage have white protagonists?

After we explore teacher’s choices, we look specifically at context so I ask:

Of the picture books that they read to their class each year, featuring BIPOC protagonists…What percentage highlight universal themes i.e. human experiences, friendship or family relationships? What percentage focus on the struggle, trauma, resistance, or resilience of BIPOC people?  What percentage are about culture as expressed through food, holidays, traditions or rituals?

The hope is that their libraries become more balanced, showing BIPOC people as whole people living rich and full lives.







I know that my fellow teachers as well as myself, come to our classes with internal biases. It is impossible to not. When we examine the picture books we read to young students, we have a better chance of not reinforcing stereotypes and assumptions which are transferred subtly. If we consciously shift the way we center marginalized cultures and not reinforce the dominant culture, we have the power to normalize true diversity and create a lens through which children see a world where many different peoples and cultures live equitably.  In addition to racial equity, we must value all stories that include LGBTQIA protagonists, main characters with disabilities, stories that honor gender in all its forms and non-binary characters, as well as stories that look at the patriarchal system, etc.


It is imperative that children not in the dominant culture, see themselves in books.  If they don’t, they develop without understanding their value.  They miss the opportunity to connect with their true, authentic selves. They grow lacking the understanding of who they are and who they will become in the world.  And they move through a world where they don’t belong. Because preschool and primary school teachers use picture books to introduce and teach content to our younger students, access to children’s books that center currently marginalized voices make a profound difference. It creates an awareness where young students belonging to communities experiencing marginalization can now see themselves as valued in the same way young students belonging to the white community do.

With diverse picture books, students identifying as white can see themselves as part of a community without the limitations, that devaluing others brings.  Providing a balanced view of the world for young children is imperative to promoting equity. Afterall, if we keep reinforcing that Eurocentric cultures have more value to our young children through the literature we read, we cannot be surprised when adults who are in the dominant culture are unable to recognize their privilege. Ultimately this is a disservice to children in the dominant culture because it puts undue expectations on them and creates an unbalanced world for them to navigate. They lose the opportunity to learn and grow with others not like them.  In short, nobody wins.

As a community of authors, we must make space for the diversity of books.  I am not suggesting that we stop creating stories.  I am suggesting that we be mindful and understand the context in which we are creating. I am suggesting that we create a culture of abundance rather than a culture of scarcity. If teachers and librarians, can choose from a greater variety of books, we can consciously shift the way we center marginalized cultures and not reinforce the dominant culture, only.  We can create a lens through which children see a world where many different peoples and cultures live equitably.  A world where we can address the unequal power dynamics.  A world where we demonstrate valuing all people and most importantly bring marginalized people out of the margins. Valuing stories about many different and diverse protagonists, helps motivate the publishing industry to create and value the stories of currently marginalized peoples. It creates opportunities for writers and artists to tell their stories that may not otherwise get told. And it influences what book stores choose to carry and market. It helps motivate the publishing industry to create and value the stories of people not in the dominant paradigm.

Of particular concern, is the current political climate that encourages book banning. Banning books discourages books that act as what Dr. Rudine Sims Bishop refers to as "mirrors, windows, and sliding glass doors." Encouraging the simple, doable act of thoughtfully choosing a wide variety of books that decenters dominant culture leads to change.  Banning books blocks this change.  And perhaps this is the purpose.  I think most authors understand that this is what makes this movement nefarious and dangerous.

Sometimes, a small subtle change, a slight shift in our awareness away from the dominant culture, a small choice can make a world of difference and open a whole new way of being for children, families, and ultimately communities. While authors, teachers, and librarians can't completely change the world, we can help shape and contextualize the world our children experience through the literature we provide for them, thus creating equity and justice for both the entitled and unentitled. We can help our students reimagine our world and see it as the diverse place it is, especially in the United States. We can all deconstruct the dominant paradigm.  


By Zeena M. Pliska

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Zeena M. Pliska spends her days immersed in the joy of 5-year-olds.  She is a public school kindergarten teacher by day and a children’s book author by night in Los Angeles, California.  A progressive public-school educator, she believes that the most important aspect of teaching is listening to children. A social justice activist and organizer for over 30 years, she brings race, class, and gender analysis to everything she does.  She is half Egyptian and half Filipino.  A lifetime storyteller, she has facilitated stories as a theater director, visual artist, photographer and journalist and most recently as a short film screenwriter/producer/director.   Her debut picture book, Hello, Little One:  A Monarch Butterfly Story from Page Street Kids came out May 12, 2020.  Her second picture book Egyptian Lullaby from Roaring Brook Press came out April 18, 2023. Two board books in the Chicken Soup for Babies series from Charlesbridge came out in the fall and winter of 2023.  Egyptian Lullaby was awarded the 2024 CABA award from Howard University.


Her blog posts can be found at  www.teachingauthors.com and on social media, Instagram @zeenamar, X (formerly Twitter) @zeenamar1013, Bluesky @zeenamar, and on Facebook @Zeena M. Pliska or Zeena Mar.  For more information you can go to www.zeenamar.





Tuesday, March 18, 2025

Should parents be allowed to opt their children out of seeing books that include people who are different than themselves?

At Issue:

In this poignant essay in TIME, Our Books Help Teach LGBTQ Themes in Schools. Should SCOTUS Allow Parents to Opt Out?, children's book authors Sarah and Ian Hoffman explain their perspective on being both the parents of a child who doesn't fit the gender binary's strict two-and-only-two boxes of behavior and the authors of one of the books being challenged in a case about to go the Supreme Court of the United States of America.

screenshot of TIME article on Our Books Help Teach LGBTQ Themes in Schools. Should SCOTUS Allow Parents to Opt Out?


They write,

Jacob’s Room to Choose is one of nine children’s picture books named in Mahmoud v. Taylor, a lawsuit filed in Montgomery County, Md., by parents who are upset that their children saw books like ours in their classrooms—books that teach self-acceptance and kindness.

Speaking of the power of representation – how meaningful it is when you have it, how devastating when you don't, Sarah and Ian share:

Allowing families to opt their children out of reading our books hurts the children whose lives and families are reflected in those books. “Opt-out” policies starkly communicate to classrooms of children that behaving decently to all human beings is optional and tells kids who are different that they and their families don’t merit the respect of all their classmates.

Some Thoughts on Creating In the Midst of This:

I'm a Gay man who writes books to empower kids and teens. Many of my books are inspired by Queer history and social justice.

The precedent if SCOTUS allows parents to opt-out of seeing and knowing diverse books exists would be wide-ranging. It's not much of a stretch to envision the subsequent groups whose representation in schools would be denied next... 

But diverse readers who need to see themselves reflected in books will still need that representation. 

And readers from the dominant culture will still need to have empathy and understand that they share so much with people who on the outside may seem really different from themselves.

And maybe most of all, living in community doesn't mean everyone is the same. Rather than seeing that as something to deny, or tolerate, or even accept, shouldn't we be working toward a world where our differences are celebrated?

That's the world I want my kiddo to live in. It's the world I want to help create. And that's a big part of what drives me creatively.

Illustrate, Translate, and Write On,
Lee

Thursday, March 13, 2025

Using Picture Books to Explore Uncomfortable Topics

 In this post, I’d like to have a look at Using Picture Books to Explore Uncomfortable Topics. As a teacher, I believe that uncomfortable topics surface organically when students feel heard.  



Deep topics come up often without warning and at random times.  For 5-year-olds, they can range from what might seem like mundane issues for adults to problems that are recognized as trauma.



Young children are just beginning to explore and make sense of a larger world.  It can be joyful, wonder-filled, and scary.  Relationships are new.  Friendships are complicated.  Control and power are tools that young children are just starting to experiment with.  Questions emerge like:  Who has power? How do I get power? What do I do with it when I get it? 

Moving through relationships with limited tools can be confusing.  What happens when my best friend wants to play with someone else? What happens to my best friend when I want to make a new friend? Simple goodbyes can be excruciating. Transitions can upset.  Fairness is an ongoing theme.  What is fairness? It doesn’t feel fair when others don’t want to play the game I want to play in the way I want them to play it. I want the toy that the other child has.  It’s not fair that they won’t give it to me. What does it mean to share?  





When uncomfortable topics emerge, I lean into picture books with stories where students can see themselves for support.  Stories can provoke discourse and inquiry, which can be expanded by introducing more picture books.  I look for stories with protagonists who are going through similar experiences, situations, or feelings that allow students to find a relevant relationship.  Stories help us connect with others.  They help students navigate difficult events, trauma, or topics that are uncomfortable.  They help students know they are not alone, alienated or marginalized.  They help connect students with each other who might have the same concerns so that they can support each other.  It helps build community. I find that one picture book leads to another.  Picture books soothe.  Picture books comfort.  Picture books can gently and safely acknowledge the wounds to help begin the healing.




When you’re five, the world is beginning to change.  Many go to formal school for the first time.  Topics that are difficult for children include moving, divorce, bullying, inclusion, exclusion, social cues, making friends, keeping friends, fairness, power, grief, loss, pet loss, losing friendships, different forms of families, domestic violence, gun violence, police violence, alcohol/drug abuse of family members, cognitively declining grandparents, death, racism, disability rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, losing your home, immigration, and natural disasters. 








In addition to using picture books to help students explore subjects that are challenging and difficult for them, parents and teachers can also use these stories to make palatable, topics that are uncomfortable for adults.

Children are honest and raw.  They say what they want to say often without filters.  They speak from the heart and often don’t mask their true feelings. This can be uncomfortable for the adults in their lives.  Parents and Teachers may struggle to support topics like LGBTQIA+ questions, grief, racism, disability rights, etc. Picture books can help scaffold and support adults.   Picture books can give the words and context.  Stories can help adults find access points for children.  They may even provide multiple points of access for extremely challenging topics, creating many different conversations.  Picture books can help adults gain new insight as well, possibly leading to more empathy for young children who are trying to make sense of their world. 

By Zeena M. Pliska


Zeena M. Pliska spends her days immersed in the joy of 5-year-olds.  She is a public school kindergarten teacher by day and a children’s book author by night in Los Angeles, California.  A progressive public-school educator, she believes that the most important aspect of teaching is listening to children. A social justice activist and organizer for over 30 years, she brings race, class, and gender analysis to everything she does.  She is half Egyptian and half Filipino.  A lifetime storyteller, she has facilitated stories as a theater director, visual artist, photographer and journalist and most recently as a short film screenwriter/producer/director.   Her debut picture book, Hello, Little One:  A Monarch Butterfly Story from Page Street Kids came out May 12, 2020.  Her second picture book Egyptian Lullaby from Roaring Brook Press came out April 18, 2023. Two board books in the Chicken Soup for Babies series from Charlesbridge came out in the fall and winter of 2023.  Egyptian Lullaby was awarded the 2024 CABA award from Howard University.

Her blog posts can be found at  www.teachingauthors.com and on social media, Instagram @zeenamar, X (formerly Twitter) @zeenamar1013, Bluesky @zeenamar, and on Facebook @Zeena M. Pliska or Zeena Mar.  For more information you can go to www.zeenamar.












Wednesday, March 12, 2025

What words do you repeat? Are you doing it for effect, or by default?

The robot's words I still remember from a show I watched maybe three times when I was a little kid: "Danger, Will Robinson! Danger!"
Photo: A full-size replica of the B-9, Class M-3 General Utility Non-Theorizing Environmental Control Robot, who was featured in the television series Lost in Space, at the Robot Hall of Fame in Carnegie Science Center, Pittsburgh, PA. From Wikimedia, Public Domain

Repetition can be powerful. Humans, including readers, are wired to look for patterns.

But if not done intentionally, too much or unintentional repetition can also hold your writing back from being the best it can be.

I was thinking about this when reading "30+ Ways to Avoid Repetition of 'I' in First-Person Writing" by Kathy Steinemann. As Kathy put it, 

"Prose or poetry with an overabundance of the same words or structures will seem off. Readers might not be able to tell you what’s wrong, but they know they’re unsettled by something.”

Do you have three (or more) paragraphs in a row that start with the same character's name? 

--> Best tool for figuring this one out for me? I print out my manuscript and sit somewhere different then where I normally write. The trick when reviewing is to not get stuck in the sentences and also to not get swept away by the plot. 

Does your paragraph have the exact same sentence structure for all the sentences? 

--> I catch this by reading the manuscript out loud. Sometimes I record myself reading it, and then play it back, reading along with my voice. I catch a ton of things to smooth out this way.

Are you defaulting to characters smiling or nodding too much? This last one is something I'm always on the lookout for in my own manuscripts, and I do a pass when I revise, searching for every use of "smil" (to get all the variations of smile/smiled/smiling) and "nod" (to get all the variations of nodding.) Sometimes I ration these, only allowing certain characters the actions that are my regular go-tos.

--> Working in word on a mac, command-F opens up the "find" window. The three dots next to that let you open "List Matches in Sidebar" and that's the tool I use the most for this. It tells you how many times you've used a word, and lets you jump from one to the next. 

I hope these thoughts and techniques are helpful!

Illustrate, Translate, and Write On,
Lee